Lesson 29
Ser vs Estar: Characteristic or State
This is one of the most important lessons in the course. Spanish has two verbs for "to be":
Estar = the state you're in. Think "STATE" — they're practically the same word. Being tired, being at a location, feeling happy — these are states.
Ser = characteristics and identity. Think "BEING" — un ser humano = a human being. Un ser = a being. Your profession, personality, where you're from — these are characteristics.
DON'T simplify this to "temporary vs permanent." That's the most common mistake learners and even teachers make, and it will fail you. Being a student is temporary, but it's a characteristic of you (use ser). Being tired is a state (use estar), even if you're tired every single day.
The word "state" is basically the same word as estar. In fact, Spanish adds an e- before words starting with st-/sp-: state→estar, Spanish→Español, student→estudiante, school→escuela, special→especial, strict→estricto, spectacular→espectacular.
Estar is the ONLY verb in the entire Spanish language that doesn't have the accent on the penultimate syllable in the present tense. The accent goes on the END: estoy, está, están, estás, estamos.
Estar forms
| Form | Person |
|---|---|
| estoy | I am (state) |
| está | he/she/formal is |
| están | they/you guys are |
| estás | you (informal) are |
| estamos | we are |
New vocabulary
| Spanish | English | Hook |
|---|---|---|
| estar | to be (state) | "state" |
| ser | to be (characteristic) | un ser = a being |
| un ser humano | a human being | humanidad → humano |
| cansado | tired (masculine) | — |
| cansada | tired (feminine) | — |
| muerto | dead (masculine) | from morir, muerte |
| muerta | dead (feminine) | from morir, muerte |
Sentences practiced
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| Estoy. | I am. (state) |
| Está. | He is. |
| Están. | They are. |
| Estás. | You are. |
| Estamos. | We are. |
| Estoy cansada. | I'm tired. |
| Estamos cansados. | We're tired. (masculine/mixed) |
| Estamos cansadas. | We're tired. (feminine) |
| Estoy cansada siempre. | I'm always tired. |
| Estoy muerta. | I'm dead. (figurative — I'm exhausted) |